I am a very caring person I like to help others. I love to laugh. I am a romantic. I am very passionate to my friend. I am usually quiet to a certain degree. Small talk and I don't do well. If I have something to talk about I can talk all night, but if its just chit chat, that is not one of my better assets. I take people at face value, but I am also one of those people who go with my gut feeling. If I meet someone and have an instant dislike, there is usually no changing it. I try to listen to my higher power and follow that lead. I am a very honest person and that is a must for a partner. I am very picky this is true, but loyalty and honesty, and open communication are a must for me. I want to be able to be open and honest with a partner and I want the same from him. realize a lot of men are put off that I smoke. All I can say is you don't know what you're missing if you judge me by that. I have tried repeatedly to stop smoking but haven't succeeded. But I intend to win this battle eventually! I am happy and content in my life, ready to spread my wings and fly (hence the butterfly wallpaper).

I am looking for a woman who knows what she wants in life and isn't afraid to go after it. A woman who can be caring, loving, romantic, affectionate, not afraid to talk about his feelings and communicate openly, but who is strong and secure in himself, and supports and stands up for his partner. A woman who is not afraid to show emotion or open up to her partner. I am loyal and honest and must have the same in a partner. I am not looking for someone who wants to control, but who wants to share in a relationship and work together. I don't play games and I don't want anyone who does. I said earlier I am picky, but honest also. Might as well put it out there now.